Monday, December 14, 2009

Reflections from Grace's bedside

What an immense privilege it is to sit at the side of a person who is soon to die. When time is short, every moment matters: for expressing appreciation, for sharing memories, for saying “I love you”, for forgiving past wrongs. Regrets are dealt with and laid aside so that one can fully appreciate the sacred moments left together. Sadness is present, but also laughter. Prayer is freely offered and accepted. In the presence of a dying person, it becomes clear what is important, how little is truly essential. With all the trivial swept away, we are open to receive blessings at the most difficult time.

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